wiring J-k onto pins, power switching chip

harddrive123:
Added a cap for basic debounce circuit with a solder jumper for control with a I/O pin if wanted.
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I'm fairly sure this will work as intended, I can't think of any reason why it wouldn't.

OK, so you are going to clock a flip flop with a really slowly rising and somewhat unsteady voltage for "debounce".

Lotsa luck!