xbee and lilypad connecting

hello i have some questions about xbee and lilypad.

we connected like these pictures and then we used XCTU to set xbee
but couldn’t find lilypad usb port…

how can i use(or setup) xbee with lilypad? Is this connection right in the pictures?

You can't connect the XBee to the lilypad, and expect X-CTU to see it. When that is done with the UNO, the ATMega328 chip is removed from the UNO. You'll have a hard time removing, and reinstalling, the chip from the lilypad.

You need something like this: SparkFun XBee Explorer USB - WRL-11812 - SparkFun Electronics