Xbee Shield + Ethernet Shield

I'm new to using xbee and arduino. With my arduino I want to use the Xbee shield and Ethernet shield together. This only fits if the Ethernet shield goes onto the arduino, then the xbee shield on top of the Ethernet shield. But when I do it this way the 2x3 pin header on the arduino doesn't reach the xbee shield. Which of these 6 pins does the xbee shield need. I looked at the schematic and it seems it's ground and +5v; is that correct? If so, could I just connect ground and 5v to the two pads in front of the 2x3 header on the xbee shield. What about a little cable, does anyone know of one that I could run from xbee header to arduino header? I'm not sure where to get one.

Scott