I found a forum with this relay they have somewhat of a data sheet. But the wires are for a movable push button and it is set to normally open. And they call it a latching relay needs 0 and 1 to switch it. One guy said get a normal one, one guy said set it to high delay quick first and one guy said drip a pin in the ground and other to the trigger wore and set it to 0 ,1 quick. But i think weve narrowed it down to what is going on. Not knowing what i needed to buy to start with.