Arduino Lilypad FTDI Breakout board not working

Hello all! I have been trying to program my Arduino Lilypad and it has officially stopped working. It was working fine, and the code was uploading perfectly, until I was testing some sample code and now it the FTDI breakout does not want to upload. I have already sown in my project and do not want to have to take out the thread and start again, which is why I need your help. My lilypad's green LED keeps jittering constantly along with my LEDS attached to pin 13. Every time I go to upload more code, I notice that the tx LED on the breakout is flashing, but not the rx. I've tried everything I can think of by downloading the latest drivers, resetting all serial port properties to the default settings, and restarting my computer. I hope someone can help me with a solution that avoids taking apart my project as I am under a tight timeline.

I hope someone can help me with a solution that avoids taking apart my project

If you fried the Lilypad, you have no choice but to grab a stitch ripper and get busy.