On the Adafruit website they say: There's no programming, configuring or addressing.
That is the same like the one i showed. That is not a real latching relay.
A latching relay doesn't need power after switching:
A latching relay, also called impulse, bistable, keep, or stay relay, or simply latch, maintains either contact position indefinitely without power applied to the coil. The advantage is that one coil consumes power only for an instant while the relay is being switched, and the relay contacts retain this setting across a power outage.
We you can simply purchase one from RS for example and add it to the output of the kit OR replace the relay on the kit. it's not rocket science but just some circuit tinkering!