@anon57585045 ah, he's good... got an email saying new message. 
@solaraaudio so... I don't know Arduino, especially the programming aspect. THIS GUY has been working on his Arduino/CNC based winder for a year saying he'll release plans for it and literally a week after I ordered my parts he finally released them. Most of my ideas came from his projects, and even though I was told some of it was a bad idea, well, he did it the same way I was thinking and it works. He has a few older revisions using an angled geared motor as an auto traverse that was pretty clever and simple.
That said, I have an Arduino learning kit. The more I looked online however at professional winders (people who do this for a living not the machines) NONE of them used an auto traverse or tensioner, always done by hand and with fingers.
So, I figured for now at least while I learn Arduino more, I'll just make a winder. Ordered the parts and the last part came in from eBay China last week actually.
LCD Digital 0-99999 Counter 5 Digit Plus UP Gauge + Proximity Switch Sensor-SR
- Accurate for up to 1200rpm, runs off 2xAA batteries.
30/60/600RPM 12V DC Powerful Torque Micro Speed Reduction Gear Box Motor
- Has a 1200rpm option as well. Smaller than expected but almost all vids I watched, this is what they used, and on Amazon many reviews said used for a pickup winder.
DC 6V-30V Motor Speed Controller Reversible PWM Control Forward / Reverse switch
- Came with the switch and potentiometer for speed control. Will use a guitar knob with numbers so can record approximate speed settings. Arrived broken though, gotta get the soldering gun out. Was gonna relocate the 5mm LEDs anyways, adding wire and running to the face of the machine.
AC DC5V 12V 9v 24V 1A 2A 3A 0.5A Power Supply Adapter US EU Plug LED Strip light
- Grabbed the 12v 3A model. I have the female socket for it in a bin of parts I bought for making guitar pedals with.
3/4/5/6/7/8/10mm Rigid Flange Coupling Motor Guide Shaft Coupler Motor,Conn.Z7
- 4mm flange for the motor shaft. I plan to make 3D Printed bobbin plates with a recess the shape of the bobbin to not only make it easier to center it but also keep it in place better.
Made a 3D model in Fusion. Not quite done. Still debating the best way to make the guide with stuff I have, and way to hold the bobbin in place. Which I have an idea for. I don't want to use tape. With the 3D printed bobbin and a recessed area to place the pickup bobbin in, I might make a sorta L bracket that slides in/out with a wingnut to tighten in place, and at the top use a skateboard bearing and 3D print something that pushes against the bobbin but spins freely.
Figured at least this way I have something and can get started. Parts arrived about 3 weeks earlier than expected. One part was an ETA of near end of November so, wasn't ready. Started ripping the kitchen apart and I have a PS2 laying here in about 20 pieces. That said, this should work no issues, seen very similar setups before.
When done I'll post something. Even if I just keep it this way, I'll still try to learn some Arduino. From what I have learned and seen, I think my initial plan for a CNC shield based stepper motor setup was ideal, like the video I linked at the start. His even has the software and has an app to calculate approximate windings needed etc.