I don't recall there was ever a cable with the male version of the RM-CB1 cable. The male version is on the camera itself or on the FP-1 flash grip (with the RG-1 cable having two female ends, to connect the FP-1 to the camera).
I must admit to not understanding what you are wanting with the male version of the cable.
If you want the Arduino to drive multiple cameras, on the Arduino side, you connect up two opto-couplers (or similar relay transistors, etc.), one for focus and one for shooting. You connect the opto-couplers to a female phono 2.5mm connectors. Into that connector, you plug the camera specific cable.
The company triggertrap.com sells a smart phone (Apple and Android) based camera trigger that uses a dongle to connect from the phone, and into the dongle you plug the camera specific 2.5mm phono cables. Some of the Cactus shutter releases also use a similar scheme. Triggertrap started out selling a camera trigger based on an AVR chip similar to the Arduino, both in a full kit and an Uno shield. The AVR based triggers are sold out, but they are coming out with a replacement for the Arduino based trigger in a bit. In their store, they sell the various 2.5mm connector cables: http://shop.triggertrap.com/collections/all. You can pick up cables for the Cactus triggers at photo stores like gadget infinity: http://www.gadgetinfinity.com/wired-shutter-release/ (scroll down to find the cactus v5 cables).
Pocket wizard uses a similar setup, but I think they use 3.5mm cables, and do not have a separate connection for focus, just wiring both focus and shoot together (I don't own a PW, but this is from looking at pictures of the PW cables).
The triggertrap in fact was my entry to Arduino, as the original kick starter version was about a year late. So while I was waiting for the triggertrap to eventually ship, I bought my Uno. I built a telegraph shutter release that I use occasionally on my steampunk camera.
Here is a picture of the shutter release as it existed in August 2012:
Here is a simple fritzing diagram I did to show the connections:
If you are curious here is the code that I have used in the past (this was dumped in May 23rd, 2013): http://www.the-meissners.org/arduino/ShutterRelease-2013-05-23.zip. You will also need this library: http://www.the-meissners.org/arduino/MrmButton-2013-05-23.zip.