setup software serial with 9600 baud on nodeMCU
define software serial with 9600 baud on arduino
connect nodeMCU and Arduino with datapin and with ground!
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Upload the sketch and send messages using the Serial Monitor. Open the Serial Monitor by clicking the Monitor icon (see Recipe 4.1) and type a digit in the text box at the top of the Serial Monitor window. Clicking the Send button will send the character typed into the text box; you should see the blink rate change.