program not responding

I am trying to use wiring software to program Arduino NG board, but I got the massage: "program not responding", and asked for pressing reset before uploading the program. I tried this many times but it doesn't work. I tried Arduino software and it works, but I want to use the wiring servo library which doesn't work in arduino program. Can any one please help me regarding this? is it possible to use wiring to program arduino? or how can I install the wiring servo library into arduino program? I copied it to the library folder inside arduino folder, and imported it in the program, but I got many mistakes when I tried to compile it.. is there any solution?????