Trigger MOSFET or other switch with low voltage from DC Motor

It's difficult to advise without knowing in more detail what components you have or can obtain and your skill level. I'd be inclined to go with a simple delay circuit. A 10K resistor and capacitor (I'm guessing say 220/470 uF) would receive low DC power at the same time as you switch on the mains powered fan. A 1k resistor from their junction to the base of an NPN transistor would quickly fade up your LEDs a few seconds after the fan starts. Tried it on a breadboard and works, but further trial/error needed on the component values.

Have to go out now but can respond in the morning to queries, and draw a corresponding circuit if you need it.