They have a 7mm rod. The steppers have a 5mm shaft. I could only find 5mm-8mm couplers "on amazon" for the nema 17's so ill have to figure out how to makeup for the mm difference.
The 3d printed attachments seems OKAY but idk about the rod. The rod may not last long so I'm thinking of the next plan.
It is a different question than how to program a stepper, but what is your application? What are you stirring?
If you are designing the whole thing, use a rod the same diameter as your stepper and just drill a hole and add some set-screws.
Threading the other end and adding some nuts and fender washer as a disk-paddle could be adequate for many purposes. And also an easy platform for experiments.