pasquada,
I'd recommend starting-out with something simpler first... Maybe a VU meter. Then you can use the same audio-input setup and the same processor but "expand" your project with different software and different output-circuitry.
Or, maybe start-out with something super-simple like my World's Simplest Lighting Effect.
That was just made as an example to get people started but I made a very-similar real-life effect that uses a pair of floodlights, and there are some variations such as toggling between the lights, etc. (It is simple and "boring" and it's not intended to be the only lighting effect.)
That "Simplest" effect has automatic calibration (or "automatic sensitivity adjustment", and you might want to copy that concept.
It might be kind-of "small" with pre-made matrices. You could make your own and space-out the LEDs, but soldering hundreds of LEDs isn't "fun".
You could use long addressable LED strips and space those out for a "stage size" effect.
...I made a "giant 8-foot VU meter" which is just a regular stereo VU meter with 24 LEDs spaced about 4-inches apart on each side.(1)
Or, maybe you just write a computer application and plug-in a large-screen TV display or a projector.
You probably don't NEED 64 frequency bands... YOU might appreciate it but the audience doesn't care how many bands you have and they are going to get bored with ANY single effect after a couple of minutes. 
(1) My "VU Meter" has several random variations that switch automatically... It has the usual bar-graph mode, there is a "dot" mode and a "dots" mode, it reverses so it goes "down" with louder sounds and it inverts so louder turns-off more LEDs. And it's more than a meter effect. There are 6 other flashing/sequencing effects and they all have variations. It also self-calibrates to the average loudness, so it's useless as a "meter" but it makes a good effect.
It stays in my living room connected to my stereo.
It just uses red LEDs and that seems a bit "outdated" sand I'm "thinking about" a version with RGB LED strips and then I can have "unlimited" color variations. And I can make an option where all of the LEDs are constantly on, so for example the meter effect could be green with silence the LEDs turning red with the sound (or any other random color-changing combinations).