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3.579545 MHz is also the magic freq sm8221 wants (and 1% tolerance allowed)
but i wrote 3.57 for short
and signal must be 0.3 V
in the site you suggested I found this to be a candidate ECS-2100A-035 (except need to reduce output voltage)
but shipping is about 10 times the price of the ic
and take about 1 month
that's not too bad, but
- i dunno how to build it
- must be very small in size, must not need another IC
Then buy a similar part from an online distributor in your country. w/in the USA, digikey shipping is like $2.50. Farnell is good in Europe, I hear.
Are you sure it needs to be 0.3v, not "at least 0.3v"?
You need to either build an oscillator (it does require an IC or transistor - there are various circuits available online, usually using either a transistor or one or more inverters like 74xx04 and some passives), or buy a single part that does it like the ones above (or find something you can pull one from - but I've scrapped a lot of AV equipment in USA, and I always pull crystals and oscillators, and I've never found a 3.57 oscillator, just crystals), or use the 8220 with a crystal.
You could do something with a nano, but only if you replaced the crystal with a 3.57mhz one (ofc, most nanos use smd resonator, which is very hard to replace at home - though some also have a 12mhz crystal, you don't care about that one though, it's for the USB), and enable the CKOUT fuse. This would mean creating a new board definition to run at that frequency, and running the board at 3.57mhz, which might be a problem (in terms of speed). delayMicroseconds() would not work correctly. If you could find a crystal 2x or 4x that speed, you could directly manipulate a timer to get a clock signal out via PWM, but this would also require a new board definition, and delayMicroseconds also wouldn't work. Oh, and you'd need to recompile the bootloader for that clock speed, or program via ISP and not use the bootloader. So yeah, it's possible, but it'd be a lot of work to implement 
Also, re: nomenclature: "crystal" or "crystal resonator" or "frequency crystal" = crystal, with 2 pins (sometimes a third for ground, connected to case), and no oscillator circuitry. "resonator" or "ceramic resonator" = cheaper RC frequency reference with no oscillator circuitry, used like a crystal. "Oscillator" indicates that it has the circuitry - however "crystal oscillator" is very often used incorrectly to refer to a crystal with no oscillator.