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The delay function gives You delays in milliseconds.
Also read "How to use this Forum", #7, telling how to attach code in the best way making it easier for helpers to read it.
In general, Arduino code consists of a setup() function and a loop() function.
The setup() function is only executed once and usually used to initialise things; e.g. pinMode makes that the IO pins are set to a certain mode (OUTPUT in your case).
The loop() function is called time after time and is where one usually places the actual functionality. E.g. switching a LED on or off as in your code.
The digitalWrite switches leds on or off.
"all leds on for 10 seconds" at startup is a once-off operation and can hence go in the setup() function.
You can make use of the existing for-loop where the pins are set to output. Add a digitalWrite to set the pins HIGH (or LOW depending how they are wired) in that for-loop after the pinMode; that will switch all LEDs on.
You can get rid of the delay in that for-loop; it does not make sense.
After the for-loop, add a delay of 10 seconds.
If you want to switch all LEDs off after the 10 seconds, add a second for-loop after the delay and switch the LEDs off. The idea:
void setup()
{
...
...
// set pins to output and switch on
for(int jj; jj<sizeof(leds)/sizeof(int);jj++)
{
...
...
}
// wait 10 seconds
...
// switch all pins off
for(int jj; jj<sizeof(leds)/sizeof(int);jj++)
{
...
}
}