With high power leds, you need to use constant-current drivers. The drivers need to have pwm control inputs.
I have doubts about your parallel-tlc-chip idea. The 3 chips would not keep their pwm in synchronisation, and the result would be that they could be damaged, I'm not sure. I have not heard of anyone using them in this way.
I would treat anything you find on instructables with great care. Many if not most of the projects on that site are written by people with a poor understanding of electronics. It is notorious for incorrect circuits that are dangerous, or at least lead to the premature failure of components.
Maybe you can modify some LED driver like the "3w 12v led driver" or the "300ma dmx512 decoder board" and connect it to a PWM controller (like the PCA9685)