i am trying to know the Xbee module

I'm trying to make a connection a arduino with my pc with 2 xbee radio. Firstly some information for my devices. I use:

Both of these xbee are series 2. Can these radio to communicate with each other?
I have connected the first xbee with Explorer USB to my pc. the second xbee powered with 3.3 voltage. Also, the Dout pin goes to RX and Din goes to TX :
Xbee Arduino
Dout ---> RX
Din ---> TX

I have regulate the Xbee's with X-CTU Software and when I put "+++" in the terminal window I get "OK". However, I can't control the Arduino from my computer and I can not upload a program to Arduino Wirelessly ... What else should I do?
Thank you! Sorry for my bad english...

Can these radio to communicate with each other?

Yes, they can. But why you chose mesh-network models to do point-to-point communications escapes me. The series 1 models are far simpler to configure and use to point-to-point (i.e. just 2 modules) use.

I have connected the first xbee with Explorer USB to my pc. the second xbee powered with 3.3 voltage. Also, the Dout pin goes to RX and Din goes to TX

Are the grounds connected?

I have regulate the Xbee's with X-CTU Software and when I put "+++" in the terminal window I get "OK".

There's more to configuring them than that.

However, I can't control the Arduino from my computer

With what code on the PC? With what code on the Arduino?

and I can not upload a program to Arduino Wirelessly

Forget this for a while. You have a lot to learn before this can happen.

What else should I do?

Answer some questions.

But why you chose mesh-network models to do point-to-point communications escapes me. The series 1 models are far simpler to configure and use to point-to-point (i.e. just 2 modules) use.

because I want the future to create a network with various devices, so I preferred this series... It was a bad choice?

Are the grounds connected?

Yes of course, VCC goes to 3,3V and Gnd goes to ground...

There's more to configuring them than that.

I uploaded the default items in my unit. If i put another command in the "terminal window" does not get any answer. Only when I send "+++" he answers "OK"...

With what code on the PC? With what code on the Arduino?

I saw this tutorial (http://www.penguincity.org/poe-tank/XBee%20setup.pdf). I upload the program normally at Arduino, but after X-CTU got no message back ...

I have a lot to learn yet!

because I want the future to create a network with various devices, so I preferred this series... It was a bad choice?

Not if you plan to use more than 2. draythomp has more experience (and success) with series 2 that I. Hopefully, he'll be along soon.

I'll wait! I had a suspicion that these xbee's can not communicate with each other. Now I'm more peacefull. Thanks Paul!

When I select the baut rate to 115200, the Xbee seems to meet if i write a command in terminal window. I think that the reason that no working my communication is because the modem configuration in xctu is wrong.
What should I choose in the category "Function Set"?