Need help in modifying irrigation control system

Generally how it works already:
There is a pump with an engine, that pulls up water from deep underground. Around a meter deep beneath the territory - a system of plastic pipes, with pressure control. They are connected to a small tank for about 200-300 litres in volume for about a meter off the ground. When the pressure drops from the first (lower) tank, controller enables the engine to pump more water into the system until it reaches certain point

And here's the issue that needs to be resolved - there's a second tank present. It is connected with the first one, and lifted off the ground for about 2 - 2.5 metres high and gets water supply directly through a separate tube from the top. The problem is, it has no sort of digital or analogue sensors. Whenever the lever/ledge (however you call it) is opened to pass the water supply, and it doesn't have any sort of control, water starts to overflow through the top and just continues to poor until you manually remove the power supply from the engine inside (let's call "Control room" with all the relays related to irrigation control system)

Task itself - need to create a way to either close the tube somehow whenever pressure reaches the certain point (I can mount a mechanical blocker for a plastic tube if needed) or connect it to existing system of relays as additional buffer or controller to turn off the engine whenever the pressure has reached it's pique in first lower and second higher tank

If is needed, I can draw a quick map, but if there isn't - the controller room is located right at the entrance to the territory, and both tanks are about 40 metres away from there diagonally (the whole territory is 600 square metres)
To connect I may use simply a loooooong wire for a direct current of electricity, or come up with a Wi-Fi or radio module for a relay if needed

And also the person who wishes this project to be done doesn't want to install floating pressure or water sensors inside the tank for some reason and much prefer to install something inside of the tube that sends water up which will determine the pressure and the level needed. No idea how to pull this up either

Here's the second upper tank

"Control room" (no idea how else to call it). To the left is the power source, to the center are multiple relays, and the control panel of irrigation system is to the right

Dismantled irrigation contoller



And controller to the right just enables the irrigation system at 21:00 o'clock

I'm an amateur at the moment in electronics generally, so if you were to explain stuff, I would like to receive a caveman level of descriptions. I do have certain knowledge in code, how to control arduino, how to send signals, connect to the board itself, but overall picture of how the whole system should work and stuff I would actually need is out of my reach, I understand nearly nothing

I would really appretiate a lot any help on that matter, this would be my examination project

You have a lot of descriptions, but never give any background on your experiences and capability and authority to make and pay for any changes/additions that may be suggested. How much plumbing experience have you had?

If the supply pipe simply discharges freely into the upper tank, you cannot determine the tank's water level from the pressure in the supply pipe.

I don't think there has to be serious expenses to be made if to be honest. If there is - in my country prices are significantly lower then in the states, so I can look into many options

I do not have much of a plumbing experience at hand, I'm mostly for the digital and electronic part. I may simply ask for an assistance in installation, digging, plumbing, or electrical modification and consulting. When instructions or general idea is given, I can make it work no biggie

but if I install the sensor inside the bottom of a higher second tank, or within the tube that goes there vertically - wouldn't it be telling me how much pressure is there in bars?

If not - what are your other suggestions?

I don't read word salads, but I did notice a few things.

If this is an exam project, then I have a word for what you are attempting. Unfortunately, you will likely find a ........... to help.

AND you are being paid by someone? It would be more appropriate for you to pay them for the privilege of learning.

Start with the Arduino cookbook, then the Electronics cookbook.

@reginerquff
You can measure the pressure at the outlet but the outlet flow must be cutoff to measure the pressure.

And what about legal, liability or safety concerns?

Man, this is not the advice I'm looking for :D

I'm helping my relative and in the meantime use the opportunity of what I have learnt to present as an exam, since I was given freedom of choice

I do have a certain knowledge of Arduino at the moment in terms of theory, but I lack the vision of an expert, or the plan of how to assemle everything into one working mechanism, or what do I need to have in the first place, what modules, etc. I have no experience whatsoever

But voltages, installation, coding, maybe a simple app, Wi-Fi or radio signals from the sensor - it's on me

Sure, can do. And what are the next steps?

As I said, start with the Arduino Cookbook and Electronics Cookbook or any of half a dozen equivalent Electronics starter books.

Are you serious?

or maybe instead of me looking into a certain flow of data that may not be relevant to my current issue, maybe you would look into that and give a few advices so I can look from there?

I disagree, first you learn the basics.

Most if not all the folks who will help you here have from 30 to 60+ years of experience. We didn't wake up one morning and just become an expert.

Besides electronics in general, and Arduino specifically, most of us have general science, physics, and even some mechanical engineering experience. Also, I bet every active helper knows at least 4 or 5 languages, several operating systems, and is expert in at least one application. ALL accomplished by hard work and the typical 10,000 hrs of on the job training. AT IBM we got on average 3 months a year of formal training after the initial 2 years of on the job training.

Find a pressure sensor for liquids that can measure up to about 20 to 25kPa.

This is precisely the reason why I am here - to receive General Guidance from people who have tons of experience and can make me some sort of a plan, or explain, or give advices

I'm not looking to receive directions to read everything the whole Arduino system has to offer and then do it by myself. This isn't the reason I came here

Yeah, I can do that, I got the idea

I meant how to connect it to the engine, or the currently existing system of relays. Or should I do something else entirely?
I just don't know

In my experience all tank level sensors are floats. That includes black tanks that supply septic fiel;ds where an error is verrrrrry serious. I used two such floats in my tank just in case one failed. I also set a timer after the first of two switches closed (didn't matter which one) and then ran the pump until the empty sensor tripped. The combination of mechanical switches and computer logic was a bullet proof as I could make it. If your 'user' can not see that , walk away.

Why?
Until we know why sensors inside or at the tank are not an option, there isn't much point in discussing alternative solutions.

I'm not there to examine the actual physical setup so I can't say what would be the best thing to do.