NeoPixel (or any other pixel type), can I split the data line at any point in the strip?

You mean splice the datalines of two strips so the 3->4 ends are duplicates of each other? As in the #2 DO line hooks to the DI line on both #3s.

1 -> 2 -> 3 -> 4
      |
       -> 3 -> 4

Yes, that should work.

Adafruit_Support_Bill says so:

It is certainly possible to wire 2 or 3 in parallel. But 9 may be too much of a load on one pin. One thing that would probably work is to use Flora Neopixels as repeaters: Flora RGB Smart NeoPixel version 2 - Pack of 4 : ID 1260 : $7.95 : Adafruit Industries, Unique & fun DIY electronics and kits
Wire 3 of them to one pin. Then connect 3 of your strips to the output of each.

This too: