Anyone has any experience with Decawave's DWM1000 module?

So how do you configure the module? I've seen people using it without connecting to any MCU or Arduino or anything. Uart interface?

Also for two modules to be able to talk to each other - how many parameters need to be set? Channel? Frequency? What else?

Can anyone please shed some light? I'm pulling my hair out and I don't wanna go bald when I'm only 9.

I assume that you have searched the form for references to the DWM1000

The 28-page datasheet should tell you a lot about how to use the device:

The Arduino DW1000 library might help DW1000 - Arduino Reference