I never used the DTR when programming an ESP8266 using a USB to TTL converter; only used it when programming Arduino Pro Mini. I've since switched to FTDI devices with everything integrated and a convenient female 6-pin socket that connects directly to the Pro Mini, so that was it for the DTR.
To program my ESP projects I use a similar USB to TTL converter. I usually only connect TX, RX and GND, but if the device is not powered by itself also 3.3V of the converter to Vcc. Remember to set your converter to 3.3V, the ESP doesn't like 5V signals.
After that set the ESP in program mode (boot with GPIO0 pulled low - a push button is very useful here - if you don't start in boot mode you won't get any programming done, ever) and program away. Do set up OTA programming, it tends to make life a lot easer.
I have connected like you said
tx\rx\gnd and en external 3.3V (to be sure)
but when I open the serial monitor I don't see nothing
I have try to change tx to rx (to be sure ) - still don't see nothing
tried all rate 2400-115200
nothing
It is normal to see nothing when you haven't programmed anything on the chip in the first place. I guess that LED is the power LED.
Connections as described are correct and complete.
Make sure you get into program mode (GPIO0 pulled low upon boot), then upload Blink. I suppose the ESP-07 also has an on board LED connected to GPIO2, just like the ESP-12 modules. Remember to set your IDE to the correct board.
I don't know that specific module, but have been working a lot with ESP-12 modules and they should behave the same (same processor on board). Main difference is the PCB antenna of the ESP-12.