No, it's calling out shameful behavior (I haven't read all posts but the gist of what I've read is that behavior is what's being shamed or "disrespected"). If you have any actual examples where anyone has mocked a new poster, feel free to point it out.
No, I meant you were gaslighting in this thread. You sniped (verbally attacked) @Coding_Badly in #706 and then pretended you were "only asking" in #708 after they called you out for sniping (playing the victim).
You mean like the "rules" (more like guidelines) that are posted very conspicuously at the top of most boards, like How to get the best out of this forum and Read this before posting a programming question ...? Outside this forum, there's also netiquette (common-sense rules to follow for communicating over the Internet) which most people seem to ignore, or resources like How To Ask Questions The Smart Way. There's literally a whole World-Wide Web of information out there on how to effectively and successfully use message forums. Those who actually try to follow those guidelines will have a good chance of success online. Those who don't won't.