well, since you have 12 of them, do you mind possibly burning one up?
other Nokia LCD's need Clock, DataIn, Data/Command, Reset and ChipSelect. since the pins need to be defined in the sketch, you could make some assumptions and try changing the #define section each time and test the display. it may take a while but from the picture on the above website; it looks like 2 pins and four pins so maybe that's the place to start.
Of course if you just happen to blow up the world doing this, I probably wont know it.
I hate when they put so many numbers on the labels.
I'm too old to twist my head enough to read all those numbers. I can't seem to focus on the earlier pictures either. I think my time will be more productive helping somebody else.