Another Canadian here too. 
Suggest you look at Hakko FX-888
Solder with your elbow resting on the table to steady your hand.
The following thread has 1000+ posts on hints in electronics.
Many hints are about soldering tools you can make from everyday objects.
Here is an example of 2 tools, one holds wires while you tin wire ends, a 2nd is a pinch clamp to hold items steady.
Look at the INDEX for interesting posts.
Also, try to rest the #1 part of your hand on the table to lower tremors.
